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The new Medicare & You handbook arrives in September

Senior Living / Toni Says /

Recently I enrolled in Medicare and have not received my Medicare & You Handbook. I’m concerned about what I should do during the Medicare season that happens in the fall. How do I find out which options are best for me? I have some health problems, and I’m concerned about making the wrong change.

I know that I will be bombarded by ...Read more

Sal Pizarro/Bay Area News Group/TNS

What’s 105-year-old firefighter’s secret to long life? Beer and soda

SAN JOSE, Calif. -- It’s always a joy to visit the downtown San Jose Fire Museum, but being there for retired Fire Capt. Sam Seibert’s birthday celebration was really something special.

Seibert turned 105 on Monday, and he was the guest of honor at a party at the Market Street firehouse-turned-museum on Tuesday. He sat upon a throne, was ...Read more

Sal Pizarro/Bay Area News Group/TNS

What's 105-year-old firefighter's secret to long life? Beer and soda

SAN JOSE, Calif. -- It’s always a joy to visit the downtown San Jose Fire Museum, but being there for retired Fire Capt. Sam Seibert’s birthday celebration was really something special.

Seibert turned 105 on Monday, and he was the guest of honor at a party at the Market Street firehouse-turned-museum on Tuesday. He sat upon a throne, was ...Read more

Social Security and You: 'I'll Tell You What's Wrong With Social Security!'

Every single day, more than a few of the emails I get from readers start out with this (or a similar) phrase: "I'll tell you what's wrong with Social Security!" They proceed to do just that. Sadly, their little rant is almost wrong and based on a misunderstanding of Social Security rules or misinformation they picked up -- usually off the ...Read more

What life insurance plans are offered after age 65?

Senior Living / Toni Says /

You recently wrote an article explaining the hospice issues that you were experiencing regarding your mother. Please let your Toni Says Medicare column readers know other ways hospice comforts the caregiver when a loved one passes.

My mother’s hospice case manager and social worker made sure that I knew exactly what to do for her final ...Read more

Social Security and You: Myths About Benefits for Spouses

As I've pointed out over and over again in this column, there are thousands of myths about Social Security benefits. Those myths are usually started online, but then they get picked up by uninformed people and spread from one nattering novice to another. I couldn't squeeze a thousand myths into a book, but I have written one called "Social ...Read more

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The ‘most devastating sleep disorder’ is a ‘whole other animal’

Coffee grounds and bleach aren’t normal midnight snacks, but people with sleep-related eating disorder have consumed them and other dangerous items without being aware.

“I would wake up with these containers or wrappers from an entire box of crackers or cookies on my bed or by the side of my bed,” Jill, 62, told CNN. The Atlanta-based ...Read more

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Is andropause the same as 'male menopause,' and should men worry?

Thanks to menopause, almost everyone knows something about how age affects hormone levels – in women.

But while menopause has launched a thousand hot-flash jokes, men have their own version. It's called andropause, and though it's less of a pop-culture presence, it's a medical reality that's subject to misconceptions, experts say.

Starting ...Read more

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Following a stroke, pain is common but can be managed

At 51, Kerwin Ifill had a stroke. Though he believed he was in excellent health, a tangle of blood vessels – something called an arteriovenous malformation, or AVM – was hiding in his brain. One day after a regular gym workout, a vessel burst while he was taking a nap.

The brain bleed caused the entire right side of Ifill's body to go numb....Read more

What health network does Medicare use?

Senior Living / Toni Says /

Hi Toni,

In September I turn 65. I’m on COBRA from my job, which I retired from in May when I had heart surgery. The cardiologist informed me last week that the only thing that will improve my health is a heart transplant.

I need your guidance because I do not know what to do about enrolling in Medicare. Should I enroll in Medicare’s ...Read more

Social Security and You: No Death Benefit for Widow of Husband Who Was Having an Affair

Q: My husband of 49 years died a few months ago. I filed for widow's benefits and started receiving them with no problem. But I got a letter telling me that I was not eligible for the $255 death benefit. When I called the Social Security people to ask about this, they told me that I wasn't due that one-time benefit because we were not living ...Read more

Hospice gives caregivers needed respite

Senior Living / Toni Says /

Dear Readers: This week I had my own experience with Medicare as my 92-year-old mother has reached her final stage of hospice. I feel it is important for me to explain hospice, so those with a terminally ill loved one learn the value of it. This information was given to me by the hospice provider taking care of my mother.

Dear Toni,

I ...Read more

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Travel Trending with Kathy Witt: Charming discoveries await on an American Cruise Lines river cruise

Commercial Street in Provincetown, Massachusetts, was crowded with shoppers the mid-June morning I arrived, by way of the American Glory, American Cruise Lines’ newest ship and among its fleet of Coastal Cats. These ships, offering luxury experiences and carrying a mere 100 guests, are designed for inland exploration along the East Coast—and...Read more

Social Security and You: Should a Housewife Get Paid for Social Security Purposes?

People frequently write to me with an idea to change Social Security law in some way that they think is clever and unique. But I usually have to tell them that their proposal has been considered in the past. After all, Social Security has been around for almost 90 years now, and for those nine decades, people have constantly been coming up with ...Read more

Genaro Molina/Los Angeles Times/TNS

End LA's free meal deliveries? Recipients 'pray God's grace and implore City Hall' to reconsider

LOS ANGELES -- Leo Del Rosario was renting space in a friend's Panorama City apartment for $900 a month. But since recovering from heart valve surgery last year, he's only worked sporadically as a nurse's aide.

So everything is tight, including the food budget.

"Not to be overly dramatic," he said — but he has learned how to stretch a jar ...Read more

How do I stop my Medicare Part B?

Senior Living / Toni Says /

Editor’s Note: Last week’s column about the “plastic Medicare card” scam stated that the most recent Medicare card update was in April of 2019. In fact, the rollout began in April 2018 and was completed 3 months prior to the scheduled completion date of April 2019. We apologize for any confusion.

Dear Toni,

Can you please explain ...Read more

Social Security and You: Social Security Is Complicated Because Life Is Complicated

People are always telling me that Social Security rules are so complicated. Actually, most of the basic rules are rather straightforward and simple. But to the extent that the program does get messy, there is a reason why that happens. It's because life gets messy. In other words, if our lives weren't so complicated, Social Security laws wouldn'...Read more

‘Plastic Medicare card’ scam is exploding

Senior Living / Toni Says /

Editor’s Note: The previous version of this column stated that the most recent Medicare card update was in April of 2019. In fact, the rollout began in April 2018 and was completed 3 months of the scheduled completion date of April 2019.

Reader Alert: You may remember reading about this scam in the Toni Says column several months ago. Below ...Read more

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Perks of old age: Nobody says, 'Grandpa, would you please move this refrigerator?'

Aging has its drawbacks, if you hadn't noticed.

But are there any benefits to getting older, other than the fact that it beats the alternative?

I asked that question of readers a few weeks ago, and apparently the answer is yes, yes, yes, yes, and yes again, according to the hundreds who chimed in.

"When I asked for pre-boarding on a flight ...Read more

Social Security and You: Social Security Rules Rarely Change

I feel guilty when I repeat information in a column. But sometimes a message I delivered in an old column just demands to be repeated. And I was reminded of that this week when I got more than a few emails from readers who all said basically the same thing. It usually goes like this: "It's so hard to stay current with Social Security because the...Read more

 

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